ppl need to experience deep levels of hurt before they seriously undertake meaningful change

ppl need to experience deep levels of hurt before they seriously undertake meaningful change..

i totally agree with this statement that i've read from a book while revising on the subject of learning and managing change, a subject of my course. i pretty interested into this sub since it talks bout the implementation change and other strategic managements in organizations. the topics were though for the application in corporations, some are seems to be applicable in life too~i've alwis having my time in figuring out wut the authors meant by their words...GREAT~~ ^^

back to the statement, perhaps my thoughts of it would be partially satisfying, somewhat there are ppl who alwis been hurt by their love one, yet they nv give up!!it happens with the 2 folks that stay as my neighbour next door, im pretty sure they love their son very much. i've never seen him talking in a nice tone with his parents since we moved in when i was still having fun time at kindergarden. could u imagine that for years he has been 'yelling' at them..the mother would rather asked for help from my dad for fetching her to the place that she wanted to instead of her son...HOLY~wut is he been doing as a son???i have been witnessing for N times that hez been scolding them, yelling at them, very loudly until i could heard it from my bathroom...OMG~~they are old, undeniable, and even if they would have treated him badly during his childhood, arent they deserve a life like wut they are experiencing now??even im jus an observant, would feel harsh and sympathetic to them, how would he even treated them like this???i wouldnt picture how they live under the same roof....the father is having Parkinson disease and the mother has been having problem with her leg...sigh~~could u imagine that the son even yelled at them to switch off the alarm when the alarm of the house stayed on after the recovery of the electricity?could u picture that he even hon them with himself sitting inside the car???how would i wish could throw a big rock onto his car...kekek~~
somehow, wut i wanna say is they nv get fed up even he treats them so badly, all becos of love, that makes a connection among them, and they nv give up onto him...he shud be relief~~


for me, i've been wondering whether or not i'l change if something do make me got hurt deeply. it could be accumulations of the feelings that hurting me continuously...perhaps i'l then consider bout having a slight change, or even a transformational change..hehe~